Empathy and emotional intelligence in HR: Adapting and Pivoting in Your Career with Tiffani Martinez of Otter PR
Practitioner CornerMay 15, 202400:51:28

Empathy and emotional intelligence in HR: Adapting and Pivoting in Your Career with Tiffani Martinez of Otter PR

In this conversation, Tiffani Martinez from Otter PR discusses her career journey and her role as the Head of HR. We discuss overcrowded applicant pools, the lack of empathy, and what role emotional intelligence plays in today's version of HR.

The role of HR has evolved to become a driver of business, impacting revenue and employee well-being. Where does your company fall on this spectrum?


Takeaways

  • The role of HR involves various responsibilities, including recruitment, onboarding, and performance management.
  • Hiring can be challenging, with a large number of applicants to review and assess.
  • Empathy and emotional intelligence are crucial skills for HR professionals to effectively support employees and manage relationships.
  • Career paths can change unexpectedly, and it's important to be adaptable and open to new opportunities.
  • Personal relationships and life events can influence career decisions and priorities. HR professionals should prioritize empathy and treat employees as human beings
  • The role of HR has evolved to become a driver for the business, impacting revenue and employee well-being
  • Continuing education and personal growth are important for HR professionals
  • Companies should focus on hiring HR professionals with diverse backgrounds and experiences
  • Open communication and support are crucial in building trust and maintaining employee satisfaction


Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

04:05 Tiffani's Role in HR and Challenges of Hiring

09:09 The Importance of Empathy and Emotional Intelligence in HR

21:14 Personal Relationships and Career Decisions

21:53 Introduction and Background

22:09 Discovering Pregnancy and Career Choices

23:03 Taking Time Off and Exploring HR

25:02 Finding Purpose in Volunteering and Church

26:14 Transitioning to HR and Gaining Experience

28:41 The Role of HR and Changing Perceptions

32:04 The Shift in HR and the Need for Supportive Professionals

34:38 The Future of HR and the Importance of Empathy

45:17 Professional Goals and Achievements

46:20 Closing Remarks

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[00:00:00] I think a job description should both attract and repel.

[00:00:05] Like somebody should read a job description, you go, oh hell no. That's not for me.

[00:00:09] Right.

[00:00:10] And the people that didn't read it go, oh yeah, this is exactly what I've been looking for all my life. Yes.

[00:00:15] So I look at a thousand candidates as historically us being in love with volume,

[00:00:24] but not necessarily putting in the things in our job description or career site, whatever.

[00:00:31] In the things that would repel people.

[00:00:36] Hey, this is William Tincup and Ryan Leary and you are listening and hopefully watching the Practitioners Corner.

[00:00:42] We have Tiffany Martinez on from Outer PR and we're going, which is fascinating on so many levels.

[00:00:49] But we're going to talk about her career, kind of how she got here.

[00:00:53] Some of the things that are important to her both historically and also now.

[00:00:57] So Tiffany, would you do us a favor and introduce yourself?

[00:01:00] Love to. Again, my name is Tiffany.

[00:01:03] I have been with Outer PR now for, I mean my third year and it's been amazing.

[00:01:11] My first startup business that I worked for.

[00:01:14] So that's been a learning curve on a lot of aspects.

[00:01:17] I have a corporate insurance background, but did non-profit for 12 years.

[00:01:24] And HR was only one side of the nonprofit side.

[00:01:27] So I have a lot of different backgrounds.

[00:01:31] True Florida native born, raised and lived in this state my entire life and have no ambition to leave it.

[00:01:38] Is not worth it a cold.

[00:01:43] Are we East Coast Florida?

[00:01:45] No, 12th Coast.

[00:01:47] Yeah.

[00:01:48] Okay.

[00:01:49] Yeah.

[00:01:50] That's all that I like.

[00:01:51] It's all East Coast because it's on the East Coast.

[00:01:53] Okay.

[00:01:54] No, the Gulf.

[00:01:55] I've always had this gripe with people in Florida.

[00:01:58] I'm on the East Coast to Florida.

[00:02:00] I never sat on the West Coast to Pennsylvania.

[00:02:02] I just said Pennsylvania.

[00:02:03] Listen, it can take 10 hours to drive from the keys all the way up to Tallahassee.

[00:02:08] So we are on the East Coast and West Coast just based on our.

[00:02:12] I guess the driving ticket keys is awful.

[00:02:15] Oh, Miami.

[00:02:17] Keep going.

[00:02:18] No, from Philadelphia.

[00:02:19] You just keep going and going and going and you never stop.

[00:02:23] Well, yeah.

[00:02:24] I mean that's a little extreme.

[00:02:26] Yeah.

[00:02:27] The keys, the keys is actually awesome.

[00:02:30] I love the keys.

[00:02:31] All places in Florida, I mean every time I traveled before I did my half of my honeymoon in Florida

[00:02:37] in Seaside on the Gulf Coast side and that was like 94.

[00:02:42] So there wasn't anything there.

[00:02:44] Yeah.

[00:02:45] No, it definitely changed.

[00:02:46] And I tell everybody we live where you guys vacation.

[00:02:49] Yes.

[00:02:50] Exactly right.

[00:02:51] Well, you live, did you say St. Pete or you said Tampa?

[00:02:54] I live in Hillsborough County, like Tampa area, but the main headquarters is St. Pete.

[00:02:59] So I commute over the Skyway Bridge, the big bridge that everyone is terrified of.

[00:03:04] I drive that bridge every day.

[00:03:06] Oh, I love that.

[00:03:07] Fill me in.

[00:03:08] Why are they terrified?

[00:03:09] So it's not really high and in 1982 or 84 a barge hit it and took the bridge down

[00:03:13] and it killed like 30 people because a Greyhound bus went over.

[00:03:16] It was horrible.

[00:03:17] Right.

[00:03:18] And then I was like, oh, I'm going to go to the beach.

[00:03:21] 30 people because a Greyhound bus went over.

[00:03:23] It was horrible.

[00:03:24] Right.

[00:03:25] But they were the ones that actually came up with what we call dolphins, believe it or

[00:03:31] not.

[00:03:32] That's what they're called.

[00:03:33] But they're concrete barriers now that actually sit out and away from the bridge for the

[00:03:37] new bridge and it actually blocks.

[00:03:39] So if like a cruise ship or something was to lose control, it'll help the first

[00:03:43] and not hit the bridge.

[00:03:44] And that's supposed to be implemented now like in bridges all over that cross

[00:03:50] water.

[00:03:51] Wow.

[00:03:52] That is greatness.

[00:03:53] So I love St. Pete.

[00:03:55] Yes, because I used to go to a conferences there every year and just it's a fantastic

[00:03:59] place.

[00:04:00] But I also love Tampa because I had clients in Tampa for years and I fell in love with

[00:04:07] Burns Steakhouse.

[00:04:08] Burns is an experience if you ever have time to come to Florida, you have to especially

[00:04:14] Tampa, you have to do it.

[00:04:15] It is the second time you've talked about this place.

[00:04:18] You have to take out a mortgage to go there.

[00:04:21] Well, then start filing your paperwork, William, because when you go down there in June,

[00:04:27] we're on current and you're taking me there.

[00:04:29] Is it on the East Coast of Florida?

[00:04:32] Yeah, yeah, Tampa is on.

[00:04:35] Yeah, it's worthy anyhow.

[00:04:38] So the work you do right now for Otter PR, do y'all shorten it to Otter or do you

[00:04:44] say Otter PR?

[00:04:45] Maybe we say Otter because internally, but I mean if you don't really put the PR in

[00:04:49] there, people might not know what you do.

[00:04:52] Animal Sanctuary.

[00:04:53] I clicked on their application by the way.

[00:05:00] Who doesn't like Otters?

[00:05:02] Seriously.

[00:05:03] And they have this logo.

[00:05:05] See?

[00:05:06] All right.

[00:05:07] So what are you into right now with your current position?

[00:05:10] Like what's top of mind for you these days?

[00:05:12] So I am the head of HR.

[00:05:14] I do everything.

[00:05:15] I am the first one you will meet if you're doing an interview with us.

[00:05:18] I do first round interviews on the recruiting side.

[00:05:20] I'm the one that goes through your assessments.

[00:05:23] I'm the one that onboard you.

[00:05:25] I am also the one that you will get in trouble with if you're not doing your

[00:05:28] work and put your performance plan.

[00:05:30] So it can be scary HR, but I really try not to be.

[00:05:35] One thing I really do is I try to tell everybody if you're getting put on

[00:05:38] a performance plan, there's a reason why and we've probably already had a

[00:05:41] verbal discussion on it, right?

[00:05:43] Now we're just keeping track so we can make sure that we're helping support

[00:05:46] you because some people will get on plans and they don't have this

[00:05:50] manager support.

[00:05:52] And we need to make sure we're holding the managers accountable too.

[00:05:55] Right.

[00:05:56] So I, the biggest thing right now is when we're hiring people,

[00:06:00] I have such a flood of applicants come in.

[00:06:04] We put up PR assistant rollout not too long ago and I had over a

[00:06:09] thousand applicants come in way too many.

[00:06:13] And I tightened up my first round like before they even get through

[00:06:17] the assessments because we do pretty good assessments to kind of filter.

[00:06:20] So up to, you know, the percentage they need to have and I still think

[00:06:24] I have, I think 134 people right now just sitting that they've got

[00:06:28] the assessment and gotten the score and need to be reviewed.

[00:06:31] So that's for one position.

[00:06:34] I mean, come on.

[00:06:35] Like, that's insane.

[00:06:37] Cause there's so many good people that come through the pipeline and

[00:06:40] you're like, Oh, I really want this person.

[00:06:42] I would love this person's a great cultural fit.

[00:06:45] And it's what do you, what do you do?

[00:06:47] You know, it's hard.

[00:06:49] Where did you post the job?

[00:06:51] So we, like on deed.

[00:06:53] Yeah, it goes on on deed and career site.

[00:06:56] Yeah.

[00:06:57] Careers are career site and we use Breezy that HR.

[00:07:00] Of course.

[00:07:01] They're out of Florida.

[00:07:02] Makes sense.

[00:07:03] And we, we love that because it's so easy to use.

[00:07:06] I mean, it's just, it helps me keep track of everybody.

[00:07:09] My assessments are in there.

[00:07:11] So I really like it.

[00:07:13] Our CEO loves it.

[00:07:14] So that if he's happy, I'm happy.

[00:07:17] 100%.

[00:07:18] To be the opposite way.

[00:07:20] If you're happy, he's happy.

[00:07:23] Exactly.

[00:07:24] Do you, do you think the, this might be a loaded question.

[00:07:28] Or am I not?

[00:07:29] Do you, do you think the job description has,

[00:07:35] has impacted the number of people that applied to your job.

[00:07:39] And why I'm, why I'm phrasing it that way is this is my bias.

[00:07:44] So speak from that.

[00:07:46] I think a job description should both attract and repel.

[00:07:51] Like somebody should read a job description.

[00:07:53] Oh hell no.

[00:07:54] That's not for me.

[00:07:55] Right.

[00:07:56] And the people that didn't read it and go, oh yeah,

[00:07:58] this is exactly what I've been looking for all my life.

[00:08:00] Yes.

[00:08:01] So I, I look at a thousand candidates as historically us being

[00:08:07] in love with volume.

[00:08:09] But not necessarily putting me in the things in our job description

[00:08:15] or career site, whatever.

[00:08:16] In the things that would repel people.

[00:08:19] You know, like it's fair.

[00:08:21] That's a fair assessment.

[00:08:23] I'm not disagreeing with that.

[00:08:25] Okay.

[00:08:26] So next time you post, will you,

[00:08:30] will you think of that differently?

[00:08:32] I will definitely think of that.

[00:08:33] I do think we definitely attract in the aspect,

[00:08:38] especially on like the publicist side.

[00:08:40] We're not your traditional public relations firm, right?

[00:08:44] We're not these 25, 30 year old established firms that are

[00:08:48] very archaic in their methods and pay for a year up front.

[00:08:52] And if you get something cool,

[00:08:53] if you don't, oh well, you signed a contract and you're in.

[00:08:56] You know, we're very, we've really worked hard to make sure

[00:08:59] that we have relationships established with different people

[00:09:02] to get our clients the exposure that they're needing

[00:09:05] to be able to give guarantees saying, hey,

[00:09:07] you're not, we're not putting you in Forbes right out the gate.

[00:09:10] Right?

[00:09:11] Like we can't necessarily do that.

[00:09:12] Your company just started, but let's build you up

[00:09:15] to where Forbes is asking for you.

[00:09:17] And so that's our goal is to keep, you know,

[00:09:20] the clients where they just keep getting steam and building up.

[00:09:23] And I've been so grateful in the fact with it being a startup is

[00:09:27] not only, I mean, I have 15 plus years HR experience, right?

[00:09:31] So I know HR like I can do it.

[00:09:34] And I know I'm good at it.

[00:09:36] That's one thing.

[00:09:37] I'm not the most confident human on the planet.

[00:09:39] I'll be full disclosure on that when I'm probably my own worst

[00:09:41] enemy, but when it comes to dealing with other people

[00:09:44] and helping them, especially in their job,

[00:09:47] I know I'm good at that and advocating for that.

[00:09:50] But I think with our job things, we're willing to train

[00:09:54] and we're going to take someone that maybe is fresh out of college

[00:09:58] and they went for a communication degree, but have no experience.

[00:10:01] We're going to teach you our way and it's not the traditional way

[00:10:05] and that's okay because that's kind of what we want.

[00:10:08] We want to make sure that we're, you know,

[00:10:10] training you the way that we want you to work with our clients

[00:10:13] because it's working for us.

[00:10:15] Yeah.

[00:10:16] And some of that volume, I was thinking the same thing,

[00:10:19] William is a job description screening out versus in,

[00:10:22] but graduation is here.

[00:10:26] Yes.

[00:10:27] All of these people are graduating and saying,

[00:10:31] my mom and dad are going to charge me rent or they're going

[00:10:34] to kick me out.

[00:10:35] They just spent all this money on degrees.

[00:10:37] They need a job.

[00:10:38] And I think that's the way because for the,

[00:10:41] I missed the memo telling my 18 year old when she first

[00:10:44] turned 18 and I could charge her rent.

[00:10:45] Nobody gave me that memo in my adult book.

[00:10:48] No, there's a comic on Netflix.

[00:10:51] His name is earthquake.

[00:10:52] He's from Atlanta and he has a bit on this.

[00:10:56] He goes when you turn 18,

[00:10:59] I go from becoming or from your father to your advisor.

[00:11:05] Right.

[00:11:06] So when something goes on in your life,

[00:11:08] I can didn't say I will advise you to do this.

[00:11:13] So, so it's like disconnect.

[00:11:16] We're just going to, you know, your money is your money.

[00:11:18] And at 18.

[00:11:19] Good luck with that.

[00:11:21] But I think, you know, like with what Ryan said on the college stuff,

[00:11:25] graduation stuff, I think there's something there,

[00:11:28] there because you also say we don't mind.

[00:11:31] You don't have to have 10 years of experience.

[00:11:33] Okay. We get it.

[00:11:34] You need to be trained.

[00:11:36] If you've already got academic, you can write.

[00:11:38] Okay.

[00:11:39] Great.

[00:11:40] So we're going to train you in our specific and unique way.

[00:11:44] Yeah.

[00:11:45] If I'm, if I'm graduating University of Texas.

[00:11:48] And it got a comms degree in a journalism minor.

[00:11:51] I'm attracted to that because I had no,

[00:11:54] the expectation isn't,

[00:11:56] I have to come in with a network and all this other crazy stuff.

[00:12:01] It's like they continue like raw clay and,

[00:12:04] and build me up.

[00:12:06] Right.

[00:12:07] And that's, that's the beautiful thing of it.

[00:12:09] And we've,

[00:12:10] we've had some individuals that have come in and they are super stars.

[00:12:14] I mean,

[00:12:15] they're amazing with the clients.

[00:12:17] They've got the softwares down packed.

[00:12:20] They can handle more caseloads than some of the other, you know,

[00:12:24] people that maybe were tenured and came from other PR firms.

[00:12:27] Right.

[00:12:28] So there's been success in that.

[00:12:31] Now that's a double-edged sword.

[00:12:33] Right.

[00:12:34] Cause we have brand new people that, you know,

[00:12:37] have been hustling and they get promoted,

[00:12:39] but then they don't have the managerial skills.

[00:12:41] And so that's been something I'm shifting my focus actually this summer

[00:12:46] where we're actually going to do more one-on-one managerial trainings

[00:12:50] where I'm going to sit with the managers and the account strategist

[00:12:53] and really help them because their emotional intelligence needs to be worked on

[00:12:57] and not saying anything negative.

[00:12:59] It's just,

[00:13:00] No, no, no.

[00:13:01] People don't know that with your EQ, you really have to try.

[00:13:06] Yeah.

[00:13:07] And you really have to push and you really have to challenge yourself

[00:13:10] to take yourself out of the situation and look at it as an objective third party.

[00:13:14] And people don't, we're all human.

[00:13:16] We all have emotions.

[00:13:17] We want to have emotional reactions.

[00:13:19] And sometimes it's great.

[00:13:21] Yeah.

[00:13:22] Let's see.

[00:13:23] Past performance and success in performance,

[00:13:27] not necessarily an indicator of a great manager.

[00:13:30] Right?

[00:13:31] Like we, we've, I mean, literally if we ran AI through the last probably

[00:13:36] dozen conversations we've had, I mean, this is it.

[00:13:40] This is the, this is the problem where middle management, right?

[00:13:44] Like first level managers, they're like, they were so good.

[00:13:48] They were the best sales person in the world.

[00:13:50] They really suck as a manager.

[00:13:53] Like their entire sales team is quitting.

[00:13:55] Yeah.

[00:13:56] We didn't give them the tools and resources to be successful.

[00:13:59] It was a battlefield promotion.

[00:14:01] And we didn't give them those.

[00:14:03] And I think when you, when you're talking about EQ, one of the things I love

[00:14:07] about what you're going to do this summer is you're a third party

[00:14:12] actually can say, okay, this is what I hear you saying.

[00:14:15] Okay.

[00:14:16] Is that what you hear them saying?

[00:14:17] Okay.

[00:14:18] No, what I hear, you know, like a third party can mediate that.

[00:14:22] Yes.

[00:14:23] And then there's them just doing it on their own.

[00:14:26] It's left to, hey, I'm busy.

[00:14:28] Okay.

[00:14:29] I know we had an hour.

[00:14:30] Can we get this done in 20 minutes?

[00:14:31] Okay.

[00:14:32] I don't have 20 minutes.

[00:14:33] Can we get it done in 10 and like everybody's busy.

[00:14:35] It doesn't get prioritized.

[00:14:36] And so empathy does isn't, isn't an ingredient that gets baked

[00:14:42] in.

[00:14:43] And so a third party make sure that it ensures that that

[00:14:48] empathy is, it's just a conversation tripping with that.

[00:14:51] Right.

[00:14:52] Yes.

[00:14:53] And you have to have a certain talent to be empathetic to all

[00:14:56] aspects because you have to understand the human side of it,

[00:14:59] people going through things, people having a human reaction or

[00:15:03] response to something that's going on in their personal life

[00:15:06] and they're bringing it to work and they don't even realize

[00:15:08] it.

[00:15:09] And also being empathetic to understanding the CEO and the

[00:15:13] CMO and saying, Hey, they're not getting the job done.

[00:15:16] What's going on?

[00:15:17] And this person has opened up to you and told you but asked

[00:15:21] you to keep confidence.

[00:15:22] So how do you have your loyalty to your company but also know

[00:15:26] that your staff can trust you.

[00:15:28] And so there's a very fine line there on what you can do and I

[00:15:31] think I have mastered that aspect of being able to have

[00:15:35] conversations openly.

[00:15:37] I do think that it helps that the C-sweets are founders

[00:15:41] especially.

[00:15:42] They have a high level of respect for me and I have a

[00:15:45] high level of respect for them.

[00:15:47] I can come in and close the door and tell them, listen, I

[00:15:50] don't have anyone else to vent to because I am your top person

[00:15:54] when it comes to the people.

[00:15:55] So I don't have a vocalizing avenue here.

[00:15:59] You need to listen to me.

[00:16:00] I'm going to complain and I'm going to complain hard for

[00:16:03] a minute.

[00:16:04] And if you want me to do something, then we'll do it.

[00:16:07] But sometimes that's all it is, is I just need to come

[00:16:10] out with it and say, I've had four people come to me

[00:16:13] and they are so upset and I've calmed it down, but now I'm

[00:16:17] upset.

[00:16:18] And I have all that emotion that's built up in me and I

[00:16:20] can't do anything with it because I had to channel my

[00:16:23] own EQ to keep it regulated and someone has to hear it

[00:16:26] and it's too confidential.

[00:16:27] So guess what?

[00:16:29] You're on the list.

[00:16:31] You know what they listen and they were like, okay, what

[00:16:34] do we do?

[00:16:35] And sometimes they can't do anything.

[00:16:37] I'm like, sometimes I just kind of work on it now on

[00:16:39] the back end, but thank you.

[00:16:41] And I'm like, and don't bring this up at my next review.

[00:16:44] No, it's a conversation with no outcomes.

[00:16:46] I love the way people tell me that like, okay, I'm going

[00:16:49] to tell you this in confidence.

[00:16:50] I'm like, okay, I'm not going to tweet it out or whatever.

[00:16:53] And then they say, you can't tell your wife.

[00:16:56] You can't tell anybody.

[00:16:59] I'm like 100%.

[00:17:02] I'm like, after, here's what I know after 30 years of

[00:17:05] marriage, my wife's going to know everything.

[00:17:07] So if this is a deal breaker for you, go ahead and

[00:17:10] stop.

[00:17:11] Cause if you think for a moment that I'm not going to

[00:17:14] tell my wife, yeah, that's just insane.

[00:17:16] I won't use names.

[00:17:17] My husband doesn't know the names of the people in my

[00:17:19] office anyway.

[00:17:20] Like, yeah, he doesn't.

[00:17:21] He's terrible with names.

[00:17:23] It took him three weeks to remember my name and I

[00:17:26] still marry them.

[00:17:27] So I mean, there's that.

[00:17:29] Fair statement.

[00:17:30] Fair statement.

[00:17:31] I think we need to talk to him and get that story.

[00:17:34] No, no, no.

[00:17:35] You would love him.

[00:17:37] I'm going to tell you this is this big burly 235 pound

[00:17:42] all muscular man.

[00:17:43] And he is the biggest teddy bearer with the kindest

[00:17:46] and he just is that him standing behind you?

[00:17:50] Is that somewhere it dude?

[00:17:51] No, that's a different picture.

[00:17:53] Oh, no, the man standing behind you.

[00:17:56] Oh no, there's no men standing.

[00:17:59] You know what it reminds me of my pit bulls.

[00:18:02] My both we have two pits brother and sister.

[00:18:06] They look intimidating.

[00:18:08] But when you look, you look at him, you're like, Holy shit,

[00:18:11] hide your, you know, hide everything because they're

[00:18:13] about to eat your car.

[00:18:15] Yeah.

[00:18:16] These dogs, if you gave them, if you gave them a Dorito chip,

[00:18:19] they would, they would show you where the safe is.

[00:18:22] There's such, there's such teddy bears.

[00:18:24] I'm like, I get it.

[00:18:26] There's still that fear though of like, they're just

[00:18:29] going to snap at you.

[00:18:31] Like right there.

[00:18:33] They're excited.

[00:18:34] They're excited, but, but so okay.

[00:18:38] So we got a good, a really good bit on what you're going to do this summer.

[00:18:41] Yes.

[00:18:42] Tell us what you pull.

[00:18:44] Okay.

[00:18:45] Let's go back to high school or college either or it doesn't matter

[00:18:48] because it's my college and is a little weird.

[00:18:51] Okay.

[00:18:52] Good.

[00:18:53] We like weird.

[00:18:54] Let's do it.

[00:18:55] We like where what did you want to be when you were younger?

[00:18:58] When I was in high school, I honestly had no idea.

[00:19:02] I assumed I was going to be in something with law enforcement.

[00:19:06] Just because I have family that was involved in law enforcement

[00:19:09] always had a respect for law enforcement in general.

[00:19:12] And just, I'm, I'm a rule follower.

[00:19:15] I'm kind of by the book on stuff.

[00:19:17] I mean, I guess that's why HR fits now.

[00:19:19] Yep.

[00:19:20] Yep.

[00:19:21] You know, policies, procedures.

[00:19:23] There's a handbook.

[00:19:24] Yes.

[00:19:25] So when I went into college originally,

[00:19:28] I went to University of South Florida and I was getting my degree

[00:19:32] in criminology with the intention of applying for the U.S.

[00:19:36] Marshals service.

[00:19:37] Oh, tracks.

[00:19:38] They, I think I could totally see you on like CSI.

[00:19:41] Oh yeah.

[00:19:42] In the office room at the, at the computer, like direct.

[00:19:45] Tracks.

[00:19:46] The show.

[00:19:47] Tracks.

[00:19:48] All this tracks.

[00:19:49] No.

[00:19:50] So at that time, you know, remember I graduated high school

[00:19:54] in 01.

[00:19:55] Right.

[00:19:56] So when I was in college, September 11th happened.

[00:20:01] Yeah.

[00:20:02] So a big uptick in like, you know, people wanting to serve their

[00:20:07] country and do things.

[00:20:08] And I was like, I am not made for the military.

[00:20:10] And I know that.

[00:20:11] And that is okay.

[00:20:12] But, you know, being in the criminology department and having

[00:20:15] all that access, you know, it's like U.S.

[00:20:17] Marshals, they want women, they want men.

[00:20:21] They can put us undercover a lot easier.

[00:20:24] Right.

[00:20:25] I was, I was very much the wallflower in school.

[00:20:29] So like I knew everybody, but everyone didn't necessarily know

[00:20:33] me.

[00:20:34] I just kind of blended into the background.

[00:20:36] Right.

[00:20:37] Like I didn't, I wasn't a cheerleader.

[00:20:38] I didn't.

[00:20:39] You know, I wasn't president of, you know,

[00:20:41] those student council or anything like that.

[00:20:43] I was just, I got good grades.

[00:20:44] I did my thing, but I also just kind of came up with

[00:20:47] myself.

[00:20:48] Only child.

[00:20:49] So no big deal.

[00:20:50] So I was really gung-ho on it.

[00:20:52] And then I met my husband.

[00:20:54] His fault.

[00:20:55] The wheels of the bus.

[00:20:56] This is where they fall off.

[00:20:57] Got it.

[00:20:58] It's all Bobby's fault.

[00:20:59] So I met my husband.

[00:21:01] I knew immediately, I was like, all my plans are done.

[00:21:04] I was like, I don't know what I'm going to do with my life now,

[00:21:07] but I was like, I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:09] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:10] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:11] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:12] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:13] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:14] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:15] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:16] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:17] I'm not going to do this.

[00:21:18] I don't know what I'm going to do with my life now,

[00:21:20] but I'm not going away.

[00:21:21] I'm not leaving him.

[00:21:22] He's a, I always say former Marine,

[00:21:24] because he's not actively in,

[00:21:25] but I don't say that.

[00:21:26] I know you don't say they're not former Marines,

[00:21:28] but he was not too long out of this service.

[00:21:31] He's a little bit old.

[00:21:32] But he was out of the core.

[00:21:33] He had been previously engaged in the core.

[00:21:35] And one of the things he had said it was like, listen,

[00:21:38] I want to be with you,

[00:21:40] but you know, he's like, I want to support you if you

[00:21:43] to do this, but the reason I ended my engagement was because she didn't have time for me even

[00:21:47] when I got back from my deployments. It's like I want to start a family. I want to grow with

[00:21:52] somebody and I said, I'll figure something out. So I switched gears drastically by finding out

[00:22:02] on my 21st birthday. I was pregnant with my oldest daughter now. We were we met when I was

[00:22:10] 19. So we had been together for a few years and we were wanting to get married and we were going

[00:22:14] to wait till my 21st birthday to go to Vegas and elope just to irritate my dad. That was the whole

[00:22:19] purpose. I like all this. I like all of this. Let me get some popcorn. Oh my God. I love all this.

[00:22:26] I was feeling a little sick. Didn't understand why I was feeling sick. Of course. When I think,

[00:22:32] when we were first, when we first got out was pregnant. I was like 90 pounds soaked in what I

[00:22:36] was a very small little person. So me being sick, not really a shocker. But my husband's like,

[00:22:43] did you do a pregnancy test? And I'm like, well, no, why? And he's like, you probably should rule

[00:22:46] that out based on you getting sick every single morning. And I'm like,

[00:22:52] still boning sickness for a reason, but you know,

[00:22:55] grossing me out. So I was like, okay, we'll find that. I'll just do it. And I literally

[00:22:59] on my birthday before we went to spaghetti warehouse for dinner. I did a pregnancy test.

[00:23:03] I missed that space. That was a good restaurant. So I was like, oh my gosh. And he was like,

[00:23:09] this is amazing. And I was like, what? I was like, we're not ready for this.

[00:23:15] I ended up going to I ended up going to work for an insurance company. So I would have good

[00:23:20] benefits. You know, worked there. I had my first daughter, I actually had my first

[00:23:25] daughter and I took two years off where my husband worked three jobs. He refused to let

[00:23:28] me work. So me and my oldest daughter were like best little pals and you know, go to the mall

[00:23:34] playing in the playgrounds. And that was probably one of the best experiences of my life. And I'm

[00:23:37] very grateful to the state to my husband for that, to give me that time. Then went into the insurance

[00:23:43] aspect got insured and licensed to write policies in like 15 different states.

[00:23:49] Again, policies.

[00:23:50] Policy.

[00:23:50] Policy.

[00:23:51] You're seeing this, right?

[00:23:52] I got rules.

[00:23:52] There's rules.

[00:23:54] All righty.

[00:23:55] So you're seeing a trend, right?

[00:23:56] I am.

[00:23:57] I am.

[00:23:59] Then my father was in a motorcycle accident and passed away.

[00:24:05] And I,

[00:24:06] Oh my God.

[00:24:07] Yeah. And 80 year old woman just turned right out in front of him on a road. She never, she

[00:24:12] claimed she never saw him. He was very old school. He was a California Highway Patrol

[00:24:17] motorcycle officer back in the day. He wrote he was a Vietnam veteran in the Army.

[00:24:23] And he was one of those old guys that rode his motorcycle without a helmet.

[00:24:28] Oh yeah. Oh yeah.

[00:24:29] And that's what did him in because his body was fine. It was because he hit his head

[00:24:33] and that's why I passed away. So that happened in 08. I shut down. I left my job. I said,

[00:24:42] I can't do this. I didn't, I lost faith. I lost everything. My husband stuck by my side. He's

[00:24:50] like you need to get help. You need therapy. He's like, I love you and you're not even

[00:24:55] you don't want to take care of yourself, let alone your daughter who my daughter was four,

[00:25:00] no three, three going on for the time. He's like, you've got to get help to me.

[00:25:04] And I finally was like, yeah, you're right. I need help. And I did get help. And I went

[00:25:08] to counseling for about six months and started volunteering at my daughter's school because

[00:25:13] she was about to start kindergarten. So I got involved there, which surprisingly was

[00:25:18] the same school that I went to elementary school. So there were still my kindergarten

[00:25:23] teachers still works there to this day. Oh man. And I was volunteering with her and that gave me

[00:25:29] a little bit of like, okay, I have some purpose. Yeah, yeah. Found out. Yes. Meeting came back into

[00:25:35] life. Exactly. Then found out we were pregnant with our second daughter. So I was able to stay

[00:25:40] home for a couple years, have her volunteer and actually found a church nearby. I was the PTA

[00:25:47] president at the time at my daughter's school and went to the church to ask for a blanket drive

[00:25:52] because it was a title one school. So it's in a very poor community and 80% of the population there

[00:25:59] are at or below poverty level. And so there were kids in that school that they would have to take

[00:26:04] turns with the blankets during the winter because there wasn't enough blankets for all the kids.

[00:26:08] So I was just trying to do what I could find some purpose. I met one of the

[00:26:13] children directors there and one of the pastors there and they were like,

[00:26:17] we'd love you to come to church. Now mind you, this church is in a retirement community. So it

[00:26:20] was 55 and up all older retirees like their age with 72. And so they're like, we'd love for you

[00:26:27] girls to come to church. Can I go? We need some young blood. We need some.

[00:26:33] We can take that two ways. Do I look 55 or like what are we doing? They want to get

[00:26:39] in blood but I was like, where are you going to get kids? I was like, my girls are really

[00:26:43] well-behaved but I don't know if they're going to get through an hour long church. So

[00:26:45] it's like, oh no, we have a kids club and I'm like, wait, what? You have a what?

[00:26:49] And they're like, no, we have a kids club. And so I was like, okay, I was like, you know what?

[00:26:52] We'll try it and we went and I started volunteering there and then they asked me to be the youth

[00:26:59] director because they didn't have anybody that was young enough to prove up with teenagers.

[00:27:04] And mind you, I have zero religious experience. I learned it there at church. So I ended up

[00:27:13] doing youth pastoring there part-time. They were building a new building and they didn't have

[00:27:19] anybody to run the administrative side. I started volunteering. Their staff parish group was like,

[00:27:25] hey, do you have a resume? And I go, I haven't worked in like three years guys.

[00:27:32] Don't run a background check. Oh my background is so clean. It's depressing. Like the

[00:27:39] the most boring human on the planet. But I went ahead and gave them a resume and they're like,

[00:27:45] all right, we want you to start working here. And I started off just as like the front desk

[00:27:49] helping, becoming the pastor's assistant and then ended up becoming the director of operations.

[00:27:55] And I was doing all their human resource work, all their vendor work. I was seeing the members

[00:28:00] from the first time they came in as a visitor and putting them in the columbarium when they

[00:28:04] passed away. I was doing all of it. And that was when I really kind of started to understand HR a

[00:28:11] little bit more because the only HR I had understood was when I was putting in my resignation after my

[00:28:15] dad died and having an exit interview and being emotional. Like I had no understanding of HR before

[00:28:21] that. So I actually went back to school and graduated in 2022 with my human resource management

[00:28:30] degree. Oh, very cool. Very nice. And did that while working at the church full time. And then

[00:28:37] I told the church, I don't know if you're going to be able to afford to keep me now because

[00:28:42] with the degree and with the years of experience I've gained, I know my worth and I want to be

[00:28:48] able to grow keep growing and I've hit my ceiling. I was doing everything. I mean, I was doing

[00:28:55] I was filling in on preaching. I'm like, guys, I can't do anymore. And I want to keep, I want to

[00:29:00] keep growing. I'm like, and so you know, I'm doing children's ministry stuff. I'm doing youth

[00:29:04] ministry stuff. I'm volunteering. I'm taking these kids to camp. I'm like, I'm doing all your

[00:29:09] vendor stuff. I'm doing all your IT support. I'm doing all of it. I got nowhere else to go.

[00:29:15] And I was I cried when I told them that I was going to start looking and my my mentor,

[00:29:22] my absolute mentor, his name is Sam Roar. He was a chaplain in the Air Force and then

[00:29:29] was a pastor and retired from that church. He retired right before I ended up leaving

[00:29:34] or right after no, he left right after I left. And he really helped mentor me behind to hone

[00:29:41] in the E2 skills and really have me tap into that emotional intelligence. That man had a gift

[00:29:47] for he would sit there and have a conversation with you. And it could be the worst conversation

[00:29:52] in the on the planet. And he would make you think you initiated the conversation and

[00:29:56] you came to the conclusion he wanted you to on your own. It was a Jedi.

[00:30:02] People like that Jedi. And so I these aren't the droids you're looking for literally. And so

[00:30:09] I really I tapped into that. And I still talk to him to this day. And when I'm really

[00:30:16] stressed out about something, I'm like, I need to bounce something off of you. So he still, you

[00:30:20] know, gives me that insight. And he always tells me he's like, you don't you already know the answer.

[00:30:24] He's like, I know you already know the answer. He's like, but it's fine. I'll talk to you.

[00:30:28] And he's just been he was really pivotal, encouraging me to apply at other places. And

[00:30:35] I actually didn't apply at a lot. I think maybe two places. And then Otter's application

[00:30:41] came up and they were actually just looking for an executive admin. But I was so intrigued by

[00:30:46] the logo of the company and I clicked in and I went down this rabbit hole on their website.

[00:30:53] I applied anyway. And when I had the first round interview with one of their recruiting people,

[00:31:01] I was like, Listen, I was like, the role that you're looking for is not the right role that

[00:31:05] you have up there. I'll help you rewrite your job description if you want because I think

[00:31:08] you guys have a great thing going. And he goes, Can I follow up with you? And I said yes.

[00:31:13] And apparently he called the CEO and he goes, if you don't hire her for HR director, we're all

[00:31:17] quitting because we need to make they didn't have an HR person. The CEO acting as the HR person.

[00:31:23] And they knew they were growing and getting that point where they're like, we've got to have somebody

[00:31:27] in. And so I had gone and interviewed with Scott, the CEO. And then he asked me if I could come

[00:31:34] in and meet with him and Jay. And I said yes, because I have questions for you as well.

[00:31:38] They were very scared because I had this 12 years with this church and I guess they thought

[00:31:45] I was going to come in like some sister Francis. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. I'm like my husband's a Marine.

[00:31:51] My dad was a truck driver. My grandpa was a sailor. You're good. We're good. You're good.

[00:31:58] I can separate the two. We're good. We're good. So when you did your degree,

[00:32:05] what through that process? So many questions about that. But basically, what did you learn?

[00:32:11] What was shocking? You know, what did you bet? You know, at the end of the day,

[00:32:16] degrees cool, probably certifications cool. Was there anything in that process where you're like,

[00:32:22] oh, hell, I didn't know that. Yeah. Or the a lot of the you're kind of shocked when

[00:32:29] you're thrown into HR. Like this isn't something obviously I was looking for, right? It just

[00:32:33] kind of didn't because I'm good at it. I was shocked and still am honestly to this day

[00:32:39] of how much HR is like the big bully and is don't trust HR. HR is not going to have

[00:32:45] HR is only there for the company. And I'm like, who did this? Yeah. Yeah. I want to blame somebody

[00:32:52] who where doesn't know how I work. Like I don't understand. And I'm like, I don't get it. But

[00:32:58] when I reflect back and I think about working with, I worked at a giant insurance company.

[00:33:03] I mean, they're big. And when I worked there, I was like, yeah, the HR was the scary ones.

[00:33:09] And that one back office that no one wanted to even walk by and get like, use it not doing

[00:33:14] anything. And HR was always the you go there when you have a problem, you go there when

[00:33:20] you need to bring your box with you. You're packing up getting your pink slip. It's never

[00:33:26] been a resource until recently and so recently, probably the last decade, right? Like it's actually

[00:33:32] become a resource for people, especially post COVID pandemic. Like with all of these,

[00:33:41] call them fears that employees had, right? I don't feel right. I'm going to explode

[00:33:47] all this. Now the resources are there. And there's a shit ton of software

[00:33:53] to help manage all of that from mental health to weight loss, everything.

[00:33:58] Yeah. That HR, yeah, has their hand in now. So it's becoming very different.

[00:34:02] Has been that's what honestly pushed me to go ahead and go back to school to get an HR degree

[00:34:07] was because I was seeing that shift of the one for a supportive HR. And I was like, I can do this.

[00:34:13] I'm already doing the paperwork aspect. I'm already the legality aspect. I have the natural

[00:34:19] empathy. I have the natural talent. I mean, if you can survive at a church of retirees for 12 years

[00:34:25] without making it, you can do anything. Let me tell you.

[00:34:32] That was Fallujah for you. You made it past that. You sold out it.

[00:34:38] You know what y'all were talking about a second ago? HR's been branded historically as the no

[00:34:44] department. Yes. And worse than that, there's no good news that emulates from HR. Yes. And so I think

[00:34:52] I think COVID blessing in the disguise, everyone had to depend on and it was it was building of

[00:34:59] that rebuilding trust. Yes. And there can be over communicative and understand kind of what's

[00:35:05] going on to Ryan's point. What do you think is next with HR? Like where do you, if not,

[00:35:13] you know, yourself, where do you think HR goes from here and kind of that next, I would say,

[00:35:20] iteration or evolution? But where do you think they go as professionals?

[00:35:26] I think it has to get to the aspect of once you, I don't think you master empathy. I think empathy

[00:35:32] is something you continually learn and you evolve with based on your age. I'm not the

[00:35:37] same person I am now at almost 42 that I was at 26, right? Like not even remotely close.

[00:35:43] So I think that having more people enter an HR field after they've done other things

[00:35:53] is going to be the biggest bonus for companies. Because if you get someone that was working retail

[00:36:02] in the trenches and then decided, I want to do something where I'm not working these crazy

[00:36:07] hours, I want to have some structure and I want to be able to help people and you have a

[00:36:11] desire and actually find out that you're good at HR and you get into that field,

[00:36:17] they need companies need to make sure that they're taking that into account when they're looking

[00:36:21] to put HR professionals in, not just looking for the person that has all the certifications and

[00:36:25] all the letters at the end of their name. Yeah, you know, HR has become, William to your point,

[00:36:32] I think HR has become over the last, I mean for a long time, but it recently has become part

[00:36:39] of the business like it's a driver for the business, it's no longer personnel department,

[00:36:45] right? So all of these things that we're talking about, they drive revenue, they really do mental

[00:36:52] health productivity, you know, engaging all of this stuff where human resources are people

[00:36:59] within that huge chunk of HR. Is it driver to the business without it, it just doesn't

[00:37:07] function, it's changed. So I'm curious though, Tiffany, to get your take on this, so

[00:37:14] where does HR differ? So when you came in the Otter, how many people were at the company at the

[00:37:20] time? I think maybe 15, 20. Okay, and you're at 60 now, 60 plus, right? Wow. In terms of your

[00:37:33] time span, we've exploded. Right, so what has changed from a 15 person come? Because

[00:37:39] William and I, we've both been part of the 15 person company and larger, but from an HR perspective,

[00:37:46] 15 people they decided, okay, time to take this from the CEO. Let's give it to a real HR person

[00:37:53] to now. New employment laws apply. So there's that, Tiffany, what do you think?

[00:38:03] Yeah, well what's changed? So it was very just the HR was just the documentation, signing an offer

[00:38:10] law, getting a contract. There was no emotional. So me coming in, we joke because we don't do the

[00:38:19] whole family because I have family, I can't stand. I don't do that. I'm like if you have a run,

[00:38:25] if someone says we're family, run. That's take ever. You can choose your friends,

[00:38:30] not your family. Tiffany, the next time you do a job description, that needs to be the first thing.

[00:38:37] Like out of the gate, yes, senior public relations associate, okay. And by the way, boom,

[00:38:43] if someone says that your business, employees, etc., they say family, run. We're not a family.

[00:38:53] We work together. Again, now I'm reading that as a candidate going, okay, that's for me.

[00:39:00] Heather, we might drink at a happy hour outside of that. I don't give up flying. What you do?

[00:39:05] Yeah, I love it. I will joke and tell them I can be like a mama otter in the sense of

[00:39:12] I'm going to try to help you as much as I can, not just in business. Right. You know,

[00:39:18] making sure you're stuff done, but you like we had a new hire there. She's moved down here

[00:39:23] before her husband. They're closing on a house together, but the husband is still

[00:39:28] stationed up north and he doesn't even know if he's going to be at the closing.

[00:39:31] And I told her, I was like, well have you had your title agency make sure that you have

[00:39:35] power of attorney to sign on his behalf? She goes, I don't even know what that is.

[00:39:39] And I was like, you need to put this in a message to your title agency right now.

[00:39:42] And this was day one of her working here. And she was like, you probably just saved me

[00:39:47] a potential like, you know, month backlash of having to go back and forth because we

[00:39:52] wouldn't have had the right paperwork. Thank you so much. And I'm like, that's okay.

[00:39:56] I'm like, I've lived a little bit more life than some of you and I've gone through

[00:39:59] some other things that you guys haven't. And I want to help. So me stepping into

[00:40:04] Otter and taking over the HR side, I was able to put the human into the human resources to

[00:40:11] where now I'm the resource for the humans. And at least at Otter, that's exactly what my job

[00:40:19] is. I am, yes, I make sure the company is compliant. I do re verifies. I make sure that

[00:40:26] you know, we're hitting, you know, FMLA or ADA or all those compliance. I'm up to date on it.

[00:40:33] I'm always following the Department of Labor on new rules that are rolling out.

[00:40:37] You know, obviously policies and procedures, it's my jam. I have no problem doing it.

[00:40:43] But I take time to visit with staff in office. I check in with the ones that, you know, are remote.

[00:40:51] I have conversations with them that are not work related on purpose to just kind of gauge how

[00:40:56] their mental health is doing. When I send, I send a newsletter every month, right? And I do it.

[00:41:03] And it's highlighting everybody that's got a promotion, whether it's, you know, a tier

[00:41:07] promotion or if they've had a lateral move within the company, but just recognizing their

[00:41:11] achievements. We always have our Otter of the month, somebody that's done something, you know,

[00:41:16] pivotal that's been real helpful, supportive of the team, which is kind of stood out. And then

[00:41:21] I may have an announcement like we decided to change something in our performance review.

[00:41:26] So I gave a little short announcement there, but the rest of the newsletter,

[00:41:30] it's only two pages, but the rest of the newsletter, I gave them cheesy fun facts

[00:41:34] of April, like, you know, with the burst stone and how April became. And then I gave

[00:41:38] them a spring into May with a clear mind and things for them to self reflect on and ask questions

[00:41:45] to themselves. How have you given back to someone else in the month of April? What made you smile

[00:41:51] in April, things to make them stop and disconnect their brain from all the work and take a minute

[00:41:57] to think about themselves because if they are not taking care of themselves, they're not

[00:42:01] going to take care of the clients. They're not going to be devoted to the company.

[00:42:04] And then we're going to have a complete turnover and that we were making an investment in them.

[00:42:09] So we want to make sure that we're fully vested. This isn't just about the 40 hours that you show up.

[00:42:16] You know, one of our higher tier place publicist account strategist, he's got a family emergency

[00:42:23] right now. And he was so scared to like say, Hey, I think I need time off. And we told him,

[00:42:30] no, you're taking time. I went in and took him out of the calendar and his manager took all of his

[00:42:36] calls and we were like, we love you. We'll see you in a week. If you need more, that's fine.

[00:42:42] But we've got this. We'll revisit on Friday. Do not call us. Do not sign in your emails.

[00:42:47] Do not worry about anything. Go see your family. And he called me today and he was a little

[00:42:53] emotional and he's like, I just want to tell you thank you. And I was like,

[00:42:56] I've got this. I'm like, if you need to talk to me, I don't care if it's three o'clock in the morning.

[00:43:01] If I don't answer it's because I'm sleeping and I'm like, you know, atomic bomb can go off. I won't

[00:43:05] hear it. But if I'm awake enough to hear my phone ring, I will answer for you. And if we

[00:43:09] need to just if you need to just hear someone's voice, it's fine. You gotta they're human beings.

[00:43:16] Yeah, paying them for a service, but they're still human beings. I got so sick with COVID you

[00:43:23] guys. So sick in 21 right after I first like my first year of being here. Like, or it knows actually

[00:43:32] right before I started is when I was still finishing up the church and I got so sick.

[00:43:36] Then I got sick again the first year I got two times in a row. I have auto immune disease now

[00:43:41] I have heart issues. I have all this stuff. Oh my God. Oh, it's horrible. That's a whole

[00:43:46] another segment for you guys if you want. But I mean, probably I've been to 45 different doctors

[00:43:54] they can't justify anything except long haulers COVID and I have tachycardia and fibromyalgia and just

[00:44:01] list it list it. I don't I still go to work. I still come in but when I'm having a really

[00:44:07] bad day or if I'm having a flare up or something's going on, I message my co founders and I say,

[00:44:13] I cannot drive today. And they're like, they're and they literally say feel better.

[00:44:18] They know I will handle what needs to be handled. It's that respect thing. They know I'm a human.

[00:44:23] I will have bad days. And that's okay. And HR needs to go. They got to start understanding

[00:44:30] these people are human beings. So much of this is going to go into a job description to

[00:44:35] repel people or attract people. We'll give you the transcript and let you run it through.

[00:44:42] Job description. Is there anything professionally? This is the last question for me. Is there anything

[00:44:49] professionally that like achievements that you'd like to achieve? Like next because it's

[00:44:54] you seem goal oriented, you seem like that person like you're gonna think about the next thing.

[00:44:58] I'm gonna do an MBA or get a go do six sigma whatever the bit is. You're gonna find some

[00:45:04] other mountain to climb. Yeah, I want my master's in HR. I really do just because I want to see

[00:45:09] based on how things have changed just over the last few years of me being in school.

[00:45:13] Right. What new things are out there? What new aspects are out there? What new things I could

[00:45:17] potentially learn that could make me better for the company and for the staff because I really

[00:45:23] advocate on the continuing education side of just being a better human in general. You're

[00:45:28] challenging your mind, you're keeping your brain going which keeps your body going. And

[00:45:31] I know I need that right now. Nice. Tiffany, this has been fantastic. Yeah, 100%. We had a really

[00:45:42] good conversation here. Appreciate it. I think everyone who's listening is gonna find some little

[00:45:47] nuggets in here. Oh yeah. And we'll get a lot of comments on the job description so we'll

[00:45:51] pass those over but I love it. Please do. I always love feedback. I'm all for feedback.

[00:45:57] Yeah and for anybody who hasn't heard back from Tiffany yet when you hear this you'll

[00:46:01] understand why and then you won't hate her. It'll be all good. It'll be all good.

[00:46:08] It's so funny that you said that because I tell people when I'm doing first-round interviews

[00:46:11] I'm like, listen, I do not try to ghost people. Please send me an email in two weeks if you

[00:46:16] have a heart for me so I can give you an update. And I do. I take time every single week. I take

[00:46:21] time to go through emails to make sure that I respond to anybody that's asked for an update

[00:46:24] even if it's not a happy update. You know we've done the position. I will still

[00:46:29] try to give them that update. That's the least you can do on a respect level to let them know.

[00:46:35] Go ahead. No it gets back to being humane. Yeah. Yeah. It might be time to get you a recruiter

[00:46:41] in house recruiter. We'll work on that for you. So when we have big hiring pushes yes it would

[00:46:50] be nice to have the help but I personally feel like and this is me being a little

[00:46:57] I'm putting myself over which I don't actually like doing but the ones that I've done first-round

[00:47:02] interviews and the ones that I've said are my 10s and we need to hire and we've hired have been amazing

[00:47:07] and others have done it. I don't know what else they sucked.

[00:47:12] I'm not saying. I'm not saying I'm a great recruiter. Is it correlation or causation? I can't

[00:47:19] remember. As it goes smoothly as I would like let's say.

[00:47:27] Thank you so much for your time today being on the show and sharing your experience and your journey

[00:47:31] with the audience. You've been lovely just thank you. Say hello to your husband for us. I will.

[00:47:36] I'll make sure when this all goes and you guys send me a link up and like

[00:47:39] babe you gotta listen. I gave you lemons on the way home. Exactly. Shout out. Yeah.

[00:47:44] Anyhow thank you again and thanks for the audience. Brian appreciate you.