Summary:
Becky Evan is an Associate Professor at Metro State University’s College of Business and Management. Prior to her career in academia, she was a training and operations executive at Fortune 500 companies. She also a published researcher of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) in organizations.
In this episode, Becky talks about her research on white DEI professionals' perception of their contribution to advancing workplace DEI.
Chapters:
- Welcome, Becky!
- Today’s Topic: How White DEI Professionals Can Decenter Whiteness
[6:47 - 14:53] What led to Becky’s research on white DEI professionals?
- On the demographics of DEI leaders and teams
- Defining, leveraging, and decentering whiteness
[14:54 - 21:02] What is the value in researching whiteness?
- How to research an emotional topic, like whiteness, ethically and objectively
- How workplace identities and external perceptions affect DEI
[21:03 - 33:47] How can we measure DEI?
- Pulling qualitative information from quantitative data
- How Becky’s research might help HR leaders
- Thanks for listening!
Quotes:
“I felt like there was a desire and a need to understand the role of dominant culture . . . within an organization”
“Many times when we’re looking at [HR] data, dominant culture becomes the comparison point.”
Resources:
Becky's Full Research Paper
Contact:
Becky's LinkedIn
David's LinkedIn
Dwight's LinkedIn
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[00:01:20] Jealous. Yeah, they are crazy cool. And our guest for today, Becky Yvonne, had actually seen them.
[00:01:28] We actually had given a Dwight had given a demonstration of them. Becky, what did you
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[00:01:38] sharing it with us. It was also awesome just to see how lifelike the avatar was when you
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[00:01:52] Blew us away, Dwight. Yeah, totally. There's so much potential with this and
[00:01:58] a lot of fun. A lot of fun. Takes you to a totally different world. But it was fun being able to
[00:02:04] try them on teams. And like you said, the avatar and a lot of craziness.
[00:02:10] So we're going to put a picture of that in the show notes so you can see how actual crazy cool
[00:02:16] this thing is. And you're going to be like, well, isn't that just a picture of Dwight from 10 years
[00:02:19] ago? No, that's Dwight today. See, that's what I love most about it is that it made me younger.
[00:02:27] Dude, your spirit is already younger. But we're not talking about that today. We're
[00:02:31] going to be talking with Becky. So Becky, tell us a little bit about yourself and how
[00:02:34] you got to today. Yeah, I thank you so much for having me here. I'm really excited to be here.
[00:02:40] Today, I'm an associate professor at Metro State University, which is based in Minnesota. It's
[00:02:46] part of the Minnesota State four year university system. And I teach in the College of Business
[00:02:54] and Management there. Prior to academia, I was a training and operations executive
[00:03:00] in Fortune 500 companies. I led things from compliance training to supply training,
[00:03:08] finance training. So lots of different backgrounds in various HR areas. In this role in higher ed,
[00:03:17] which has been a shift for me. So I'm entering my fifth year and still feeling like I'm figuring
[00:03:22] out what is higher ed since I was in corporate for so long. But my focus is really on researching
[00:03:28] and also teaching DEI, diversity, equity and inclusion within organizations. And so that led
[00:03:36] us here to some of the research that a team that I'm on published last year. And when we get to
[00:03:43] this topic, I think everybody's going to be quite interested because it's going to be a
[00:03:47] different take one that we've never had on this program. So we're right very excited to talk
[00:03:51] about it. But first, we always do this, we have to ask Becky what's one fun thing that
[00:03:57] no one knows about you. Yeah, so I actually really thought about this and tried to pick something that
[00:04:03] I've never shared before. So to be fair, my family knows this about me, but I am a bad driver.
[00:04:10] I am, I am a horrible driver. And I don't know if it's because I grew up in California.
[00:04:18] And so I never really learned to be graceful on the road or learned to go over 20 miles per
[00:04:25] hour maybe because I'm always stuck in traffic. But now that I'm in the Midwest, I'm like, oh,
[00:04:29] wow, I'm really bad at this. And people in the Midwest, they love driving. Like why would we
[00:04:36] fly to Chicago? That's an eight hour drive. And I would have never said that living in California.
[00:04:41] But no, I'm just bad. So most of the time my wife will gently say, Hey, how about I drive?
[00:04:47] And I know that's her way of saying, follow hands, my eyes, follow my hands.
[00:04:54] I'll tell you, she loves you by the way. Well, you would do fine down here in Phoenix because
[00:05:00] everybody talks about the California drivers down here in Phoenix. And I got to say ever since
[00:05:04] moving here, I have to agree there. California drivers are the worst. I don't know what happens
[00:05:10] over there in that state. I don't either. And I didn't know it until I moved somewhere.
[00:05:16] And it was probably three years. And my wife says, do you ever turn on a turn signal?
[00:05:21] And I just didn't realize that I wasn't using a turn signal. And in California,
[00:05:27] hanging your hand out the window. Are you sure you're not from Rhode Island?
[00:05:31] Oh, is that a Rhode Island thing too? They never use turn signals. And if they do,
[00:05:35] it's after they've, they're passing you at 95 miles an hour.
[00:05:39] Like an FYI, I just passed you. Yeah, it's so funny.
[00:05:43] Things I just didn't notice until I lived somewhere else.
[00:05:46] Well, it was a very brave thing for you to admit. And so we really appreciate that.
[00:05:51] And the Tesla salespeople with the self-driving cars are about to call you.
[00:05:56] I'm their target audience. They're like, yes, this will be safer for everyone if this is what
[00:06:01] it is. Yeah.
[00:06:04] So our topic for today is a fascinating one. If you follow the HR Data Podcast at all,
[00:06:10] you've noticed that over the last three seasons, at least, we've spoken about diversity,
[00:06:16] equity, inclusion and belonging. Probably I'm not trying to make anything up here.
[00:06:21] At least 30 or 40 times. But today, we're going to take somewhat of a different take on it.
[00:06:27] And it's going to be a fascinating discussion. Today, we're going to be talking about qualitative
[00:06:32] data from a study that Becky and her colleagues had done on white DE&I professionals.
[00:06:47] So our first question, Becky, is what led to your research on those people who identify as
[00:06:55] white on DE&I teams? Yeah, thanks. And I agree it is an unusual topic. And so I'm really happy to
[00:07:05] dig in with you and talk to listeners afterwards as well because I am curious about how we can
[00:07:14] begin to unpack DEI and the impacts of DEI within organizations. And so this research
[00:07:23] team, we started talking about this after the murder of George Floyd and I'm in Minneapolis.
[00:07:31] And that was, you know, it hasn't stopped. We've seen murders before, we're seeing murders after.
[00:07:37] And as researchers, we were like, what can we do? And we felt like it was important to really begin
[00:07:43] digging in and trying to understand how all of these organizations, and again, we saw them
[00:07:48] in Minneapolis that were coming forward and committing millions of dollars, think of the
[00:07:54] targets, the best buys, the three ends. These are all in Minnesota. And trying to understand what
[00:08:01] really is going to change the culture within organizations. And as a white researcher, I
[00:08:08] really felt like I needed to think ethically about what is my role in this research and
[00:08:20] is my role to talk to marginalized, underserved racial minorities and understand their lived
[00:08:30] experience. And I just didn't feel like that was my role. I feel like there are researchers
[00:08:36] that have been doing that work for years and years. And I wasn't sure if us knowing that information
[00:08:44] would actually make the change that we want to see. As I was doing research, it was really around
[00:08:51] looking at who holds the power within organizations, who holds up status quo, what does this look
[00:08:58] like? And I felt like there was a desire and a need to really want to understand the role
[00:09:05] of dominant culture. So those who identify as white, those that are in positions that can in fact
[00:09:12] make changes for individuals, whether that's the policies, procedures, informal rules within an
[00:09:19] organization. And so after about a year of going through the literature we landed on,
[00:09:26] why don't we talk to those who are white and DEI teams? So which is a majority, at least it
[00:09:34] was when we did research. I know there's been a lot of changes with DEI teams. A majority of DEI
[00:09:39] leaders identify as white, a majority of people on DEI teams also identify as white. And so one,
[00:09:47] we had a question about that in general. Is that the most effective way? And how did folks begin
[00:09:56] to join DEI teams? What's their training been like? What has been the role navigating
[00:10:02] multiple different in-group, out-of-group experience? You know, social identities.
[00:10:08] And so that's really kind of where we started with the research and the research that we did.
[00:10:13] And so over the course of 18 months we interviewed 16 people throughout the United States,
[00:10:18] many in Fortune 500 companies, and asked them, okay, tell us about your experience. How did you
[00:10:24] get on a DEI team? What do you see as your role? How does being white help or hinder
[00:10:30] your experience in breaking down the structures that are not beneficial for all employees? And
[00:10:40] it was a pretty enlightening experience. Becky, can I ask a question on that? So obviously when
[00:10:47] we talk about DEI and B, we're talking about a few different things. Not only are we talking
[00:10:52] about race, we're talking also about ethnicity, gender identity, we're talking about disability
[00:10:58] or other statuses. When you did this, you were specifically focusing on, I'll say non-Latino,
[00:11:06] non-Latinx populations who identified as white, correct? There weren't... And I guess the other
[00:11:13] part of that question is, as I'm trying to peel back, you weren't filtering on other things like
[00:11:19] mental disability, gender diversity or other things. It was just strictly race and ethnicity
[00:11:25] that you were focusing on. That's correct. And I think that we allowed participants to
[00:11:32] that opted in to identify them themselves. And I think that even that presented a really
[00:11:41] interesting conversation because so even though we all were sitting at the table saying, okay,
[00:11:46] we identify as white, we did unpack that a little bit on a DEI team and really did
[00:11:54] everything we could to find diversity within that meaning. We did have gender diversity. So
[00:12:01] we realized we were interviewing a majority women and so we intentionally reached out to ensure that
[00:12:08] we had gender balance between men and women. We also looked at age. We found initially we
[00:12:16] were interviewing lots of individuals under 35. And so how can we do this all over the United
[00:12:23] States? So those in the south, on the west coast, the south was actually one of the harder areas to
[00:12:28] find participants but we did. And then one thing that was interesting is that as we were going
[00:12:35] through this interview and hearing how people got connected to DEI, people started to reveal
[00:12:40] I identify as LGBT. I identify as Jewish. I identify as a vet down the list of these
[00:12:50] initiatives. And so I think we had a pretty robust conversation with the participants around,
[00:12:56] okay, so how do you bring that to a DEI team and how does or doesn't that impact
[00:13:05] anti-racism initiatives? How has that helped? So if you identify as a marginalized individual,
[00:13:11] how has that helped you in your work or not? So we had a lot of those discussions as well
[00:13:18] because I think whiteness, that's the hardest. One of the hardest things about whiteness is defining it.
[00:13:24] Oh, absolutely. It's really a rainbow. People don't realize their past. They don't
[00:13:30] realize their ancestry. They identify as something but they may not even know that
[00:13:36] that's actually not even true unless they did much more research. But I think what you're
[00:13:42] trying to get to is culturally. Yes, culturally. And so in our paper we talked about both, right?
[00:13:50] So I think there's this idea of if I can link my ancestry to Europe, then I'm white. So we found
[00:13:57] that in the research. But then to your point, there was this cultural element. And I think
[00:14:02] as we're seeing individuals who are immigrating into the United States, moving from countries
[00:14:09] identifying as white, it's really like we're questioning like, okay, what is this whiteness now?
[00:14:15] I say that as a white person because when I talk to my colleagues of color,
[00:14:20] they feel very crisp on what whiteness is. And so I do want to really give that caveat that
[00:14:26] this was talking about whiteness with individuals who are white who are defining what whiteness
[00:14:33] and the ones who are responsible for moving this definition around. And so that was also another
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[00:14:54] Which probably gets very emotional or heated in some ways. And I think what you
[00:15:01] are trying to do is look at it ethically, look at it more discreetly and look at it objectively.
[00:15:09] And be able to try and put parameters around it because what you were trying to do is study
[00:15:14] something, not try and introduce maybe I'm reaching here. So I'm actually have a question at the
[00:15:20] end. You weren't reaching, trying to reach conclusions that were necessarily trying to
[00:15:28] trying to be provocative? You were trying to reach an understanding, correct?
[00:15:34] Yeah. I agreed. And this is just a little bit about me and my lens. One thing that I have found
[00:15:44] very frustrating about some DEI initiatives is results will be something like women need
[00:15:52] to be more assertive or women need to negotiate more or people of color need to make more eye
[00:16:00] contact or something like that. And that really places the blame on those individuals that
[00:16:06] there's something that I'm doing wrong in the environment. And so I think with this research
[00:16:11] it was really around looking at the environment through the lens of people that have power
[00:16:19] in the environment but are also actively working to change the environment. Because
[00:16:26] like all groups, whiteness is not a monolith. And I think with all groups we treat them as a
[00:16:33] monolith to be fair. And I think that trying to understand dominant culture, trying to understand
[00:16:41] what it is and how it operates will then allow us to begin to break it down, to begin to say
[00:16:48] this isn't working or how this person or how this group is doing it within this organization
[00:16:54] is working. Let's continue to do that because I think DEI is so nuanced. I can give you 10 tips
[00:17:02] of things to do in an organization but your culture in your organization, the experience of
[00:17:08] your leaders completely changes if that will work or not. And that has been one of the hardest
[00:17:13] things about this. And so doing this qualitative research was really trying to get us down to how
[00:17:18] do we get into the nuances? How do we get into the minutiae that things maybe we don't talk about?
[00:17:23] I guess the question comes to my head when you look at this from a white perspective
[00:17:30] but you also take in all those other dimensions. Did you have a challenge in terms of
[00:17:39] the way that I view myself versus the way that people look at me from the outside
[00:17:46] and the conclusions that come with that? Because the way that I would view myself,
[00:17:54] like you say some people don't dig into their ancestry. I actually have Native American
[00:17:59] ancestry way down the line not much but I could view myself from that lens. But if you
[00:18:06] lined me up next to several individuals they would look and they'd say he's white.
[00:18:13] And so did you see different conclusions and experiences from looking in versus looking out?
[00:18:21] I guess is what my question is. Yeah, no thank you for sharing that. And I think that that was one
[00:18:29] really tricky element of this is how do we center whiteness in order to get to de-centering
[00:18:38] whiteness? Because I think we had to talk about this what is this whiteness, what is your identity?
[00:18:44] What are these experiences that led you to this? Now the one thing that is unique is that
[00:18:52] everybody that we talked to was connected to a DEI team. And so this group talked a lot about their
[00:19:01] in-group identity of being white but that they all had some sort of out-group identity.
[00:19:08] Even the there were there was a 55 year old white heterosexual male in our group who does DEI,
[00:19:17] he had out-group identities. And so we talked a lot about that and how that gets navigated
[00:19:28] when we're talking about race or DEI in general. So I do, I think it's something
[00:19:34] worth talking about. I also think that it's an and this is just for myself and my experience
[00:19:39] and those that I interviewed. It can be really uncomfortable because I'm talking to people who
[00:19:43] really want to break down some systems to make it more equitable for others. And they identify as
[00:19:49] white so they see their power in the system and that can be really hard to talk about. I think
[00:19:55] that there is this acknowledgement even of myself like I know that I have biases, I know that I
[00:20:03] was raised to make decisions that I'm not necessarily proud of on paper and how do I
[00:20:10] work through that and keep trying to do what I believe is the right thing or the next best thing
[00:20:17] within organizations for everybody. And I think it into talk about that in a lens of whiteness with
[00:20:25] the hope of understanding this to begin to break it down so we can de-center the dominant experience
[00:20:32] and workplaces and begin to create it. Hey are you listening to this and thinking to yourself
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[00:20:58] to schedule your free 30 minute call today. So Becky our third question let me throw something
[00:21:05] out at you. So how do we measure this? Where are the analytics with this? So you've created some
[00:21:11] really cool research, we can learn more about ourselves from understanding it. How do we measure
[00:21:18] this? Yeah I mean that's the million dollar question. I think that's the question that a
[00:21:24] lot of folks in DEI are really interested in understanding and there's some really great
[00:21:29] researchers out there that are looking at these inclusion measurements and so for this research
[00:21:36] which is a little different as qualitative and I think a lot of our collectively a lot of our HR
[00:21:43] data is quantitative. We're looking at turnover rates, we're looking at retention rates, we're
[00:21:49] looking at recruitment rates, employee engagement in many ways is also a survey some sort of
[00:21:57] annual cultural survey or engagement survey that we ask and so as I was thinking about this and I
[00:22:05] was thinking about like what could people do qualitative in itself could be one of the
[00:22:10] measurements and the other question that that I challenge us to think through is how are we
[00:22:17] using the data from those that identify as members in dominant culture and so many times
[00:22:24] when we're looking at recruitment data, employee engagement data, dominant culture becomes the
[00:22:30] comparison point so we're looking to see okay are women more engaged than men? Are those who
[00:22:38] identify as white more engaged than those who don't identify as white or pick a group and
[00:22:44] but then my question becomes that that group that identifies in white as white holds a lot of
[00:22:51] power in many cases most senior leaders and organizations are in that group and so what
[00:22:59] is it that we want to know about them and about the impact that they're having on engagement
[00:23:06] and so I encourage, it's a heavy lift but I encourage qualitative analysis to go alongside
[00:23:14] any of those supports. Now we have some of those in place, exit interviews, take those for
[00:23:19] what they're worth. We get a lot of interesting information but I'm also on my way out the door
[00:23:25] and maybe angry and I'm not getting any helpful constructive information but what would this
[00:23:29] look like if I as somebody who's on DEI or somebody in HR sitting down with a senior leader
[00:23:37] and actually saying like how do you really feel about this? How do you really feel
[00:23:43] about employee engagement? How do you really feel about our hiring processes? Do you feel like
[00:23:49] they're equitable and what does equitable mean to you? It was really fascinating to ask people
[00:23:56] their thoughts and their experiences with senior leaders and I think it's listening for things
[00:24:03] like if I'm talking to a senior leader and they say something along the lines of
[00:24:09] hey I'll hire anybody, I just care about the best candidate and on the surface that sounds really
[00:24:16] good but it actually needs to be dug in. We need that there's a lot of coded messaging in that
[00:24:22] that we need to unpack and understand what that means in our organization. These are very hard
[00:24:29] conversations and a lot of us don't want to have these in the workplace but they can help
[00:24:33] us at least get to what is really happening in our organization with our leadership team.
[00:24:40] Don't you think that the there is a I would like to say a now a social difference
[00:24:46] in those answers after the SCOTUS opinion on affirmative action?
[00:24:51] Yeah we're seeing that all over the place I was just reading about Alabama some of the
[00:24:55] legislation going through Alabama this morning and I think that and I think that some of those
[00:25:03] and I encourage folks to go back and listen to some of the speakers that you've had on
[00:25:09] who I think have done a nice job of talking through how do you bridge these conversations
[00:25:14] because I feel like the backlash or the current discourse in some areas is that
[00:25:20] talking about DEI is somehow divisive and that it's somehow pick whatever you're falling on the
[00:25:30] issue that somehow someone is getting left behind because of these policies whether we're talking
[00:25:36] about historically underrepresented communities or white communities somebody's getting left
[00:25:42] behind somebody's getting unfairly treated and so I think that this work will continue and
[00:25:50] that many companies see this work as incredibly important and so I think it's important to understand
[00:25:57] do our senior leaders see this as divisive do they I don't know but we have to understand that
[00:26:04] or where their fears are there was a lot of discussion around fears and cancel culture
[00:26:10] in our research about leaders who even though they have empathy and understanding and want to
[00:26:19] launch an initiative they feel like if they put out a wrong post somewhere that they'll
[00:26:26] lose their entire career and so talking to senior leaders really helps us begin to understand
[00:26:34] what are these unspoken barriers that our programs could run up against that nobody's
[00:26:40] really talking about and all of a sudden things just die and we don't know why and so qualitative
[00:26:45] can help us begin to unpack that my hope is that your research sheds a lens on the things that
[00:26:55] we're doing well and the things that were not and that gives us an ability to be more aware
[00:27:04] and get training on them as a senior leader in an organization as a chro in an organization
[00:27:10] I worry every time I put an email out or text or teams message because I need to
[00:27:18] because everything I say and do will be put under a lens and so I am on a journey to be
[00:27:24] not only an ally but also to learn every day I make mistakes every day I say the wrong things
[00:27:31] every day and I'm not okay with that and so I need to learn and I challenge people who I work with
[00:27:39] to tell me in an unemotional way as much as possible what I do wrong yes I'm a white male
[00:27:46] yes I'm over 45 I'm way over 45 and I was brought up in a different time
[00:27:53] that like to your point before the the thing I need to do and I need to focus on is be a learner
[00:28:00] and ensure that I am sitting or standing where those people are so that and when I say those
[00:28:08] people I mean everybody who's not me so that I know that the things I do and the things I
[00:28:13] say impact them in a different way that I perceive them and be open to it that's my hope is that your
[00:28:19] research enables people like me to learn more so I can focus and be better and that's what I hope
[00:28:28] those conversations with senior leaders could be so people who are listening today you know
[00:28:34] and I think you brought this up before Becky go listen to perspectives from other people
[00:28:40] go read perspectives and whether it's from Martin or Jennifer Jackie or Becky or other people who
[00:28:46] have put out lots of thought leadership on this think about how the things in the things you
[00:28:54] say in the things you do are perceived now look at what your leaders are going through
[00:29:00] and try and help them understand that and I think Becky if there's one message
[00:29:05] you know that that hopefully you're and I guess the question is is there a way for us to consume
[00:29:10] your research so that we can get some of those perspectives yeah absolutely so right now it
[00:29:16] is paid however if you're going to use it for your personal use please email me or contact me
[00:29:22] whatever that looks like and I'm happy to share and I can send you the full article so you
[00:29:26] can review it because David to your point there are a lot of things that are working
[00:29:32] and there are areas that even the participants who cared quite passionately about this really
[00:29:38] saw we're not working and so I think it at least gives us a space to begin to just another pillar
[00:29:48] and all the work that has been done by communities of colors for decades to begin to understand
[00:29:53] okay what is this whiteness how can we break it down for the benefit of everybody yeah because
[00:29:58] I do think it's a learning journey and our participants talked about that extensively
[00:30:03] what does this look like to educate myself what does this look like to educate other people who
[00:30:09] look like me or might have similar experiences to me that was a huge part of it and the other
[00:30:15] thing that I that I put in that I always share with folks and so maybe always my shameless
[00:30:21] plug if you don't know where to start start with a professional start with talking to somebody
[00:30:28] who's paid to help you unpack things because it can be really hard to jump into topics of like
[00:30:34] tell me about the last time you had a racist experience tell me about the last time you were
[00:30:38] a racist those are heavy questions and being vulnerable is a skill and it takes time and so
[00:30:47] if you're like I don't know where to begin connect with me happy to share my paper I also
[00:30:51] encourage you just to practice being vulnerable in a space where it's low risk where it's
[00:30:56] with somebody who's paid to listen to you and help you process and
[00:31:01] and also beginning to see some of the pain from some of this work knowing that understanding that
[00:31:10] I have hurt people that's a heavy thing to carry and as somebody who loves other people like that
[00:31:17] is one of the worst things for me to do is to hurt other people and so I think me working
[00:31:23] through some of that pain allows me to show up in the space and de-center myself because I've been
[00:31:31] working through some of my pain I'm not working through this in a public space with my colleagues
[00:31:37] of color and and so I think that there's lots of different ways to be to begin or to step in
[00:31:43] or to learn to educate ourselves to educate others so yeah thank you for bringing that up David.
[00:31:49] Yeah hopefully it inspires the spirit of curiosity as opposed to a spirit of judgment whether that be
[00:31:54] self-judgment or judgment of others it's the more we're curious the more that we're willing to learn
[00:31:59] both about ourselves as well as others and it sounds like what you're doing is really
[00:32:04] starting that conversation and giving that safe space and I hope you know and the vulnerability
[00:32:11] piece that you talked about is so so key to be able to have that spirit. It is and I think
[00:32:17] I like to believe that we all got into HR because people are cool I mean I think people are super cool
[00:32:24] I think their stories are interesting I think why people make decisions I find it fascinating
[00:32:30] and so I think it's reminding myself of that like oh yeah that's why I wanted to get in this
[00:32:36] industry that's what because I have this genuine love for people and I genuinely want them to be
[00:32:42] successful and I can get quite jaded when I start looking at reports or hearing why things are going
[00:32:49] wrong and it's easy for me to swing like oh my gosh people are horrible but it reminds me like no
[00:32:55] people up close are all really cool. Well we hear about the bad things we hear about people who
[00:33:02] are marching in the streets saying hateful things we don't hear about all the wonderful things
[00:33:08] like someone volunteering on President's Day in a food kitchen or Martin Luther King Day you know helping
[00:33:14] the homeless or you know people who put themselves out there to do the right thing for the right reasons
[00:33:22] you don't hear about that because it's not news but you hear a lot about the wrong and you know
[00:33:27] I guess your encouragement of doing the right thing is the right thing for you and making sure
[00:33:33] that you're good with it yeah um so yeah I love the message it's wonderful Becky. Thank you so much
[00:33:49] we learned so much today this was really cool. Thank you yeah please connect if you have questions I
[00:33:55] love talking about this stuff even though it's hard work hard work I think we're I think we have a lot
[00:34:01] of things we can do that will really benefit people and our organizations. So we'll put your
[00:34:07] information in the show notes so people can contact you and um and maybe get access to your paper
[00:34:14] and thank you Dwight thank you for being here. Thank you thanks for joining us Becky.
[00:34:20] Thanks for having me and thank you all for listening take care and stay safe.
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