In this episode we talk about the wildest interview fails and the hard truths behind hiring manager missteps. William Tincup and Ryan Leary sit down with Lorna Erickson and Victoria Gates from Expert Interviewers at the FAMA booth during HR Tech. From blood on the interview table to creepy questions about soulmates, it’s painfully clear — most managers aren’t trained to interview, and it shows.
Key Takeaways
One candidate face-planted during an interview after pushing her portfolio too many times
The interviewer froze and started flipping through her portfolio while she bled from the nose
7,000+ interview case studies revealed a shocking number of illegal and inappropriate questions
One interview turned into flirting, then marriage, then a cringey engagement video reenactment
Another manager asked, “Is your boyfriend your soulmate?” mid-interview
Untrained managers ask about religion, politics, plastic surgery, and more — on record
Structured interviews reduce bias and keep things professional, even if you stay human
Candidates want to be evaluated. Proper structure builds trust in the process
The interview is not the place for “what kind of tree are you” unless you're hiring a gardener
Real training means simulations, quizzes, feedback, and accountability
Expert Interviewers splits training and social storytelling with their “That Interviewer” series
If you start off casual, you’re setting the tone — and often it’s the wrong one

This limited series is brought to you by FAMA, Modern Candidate Screening. Talent teams use FAMA to improve candidate quality, create safe and inclusive workplaces and place the right leadership for their organizations.
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Chapters
00:00 Live at HR Tech with Expert Interviewers
01:00 William’s worst interview story of all time
02:45 The faceplant, the blood, and the frozen response
04:15 Interviewing without training leads to chaos
05:00 Inappropriate flirting turns into a wedding
06:30 The soulmate question and other terrible tactics
08:00 The case for structure and professionalism
09:30 What to do when candidates overshare
11:00 Training methods that actually work
13:00 Building the recruiter and hiring manager partnership
14:30 Meet “That Interviewer” on TikTok
15:30 What Expert Interviewers hopes to take from HR Tech
Guest Info
Lorna Erickson, Co-Founder of Expert Interviewers
Website: https://www.expertinterviewers.com
Victoria Gates, Co-Founder of Expert Interviewers
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vpreston/
Website: https://www.expertinterviewers.com
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William Tincup LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tincup
Ryan Leary LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanleary
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