Ep 83: Why Good Employees in Caring Professions Leave (with Crystal Stokes)
The Gen Mess with TessOctober 21, 2026
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Ep 83: Why Good Employees in Caring Professions Leave (with Crystal Stokes)

This episode examines why dedicated, compassionate professionals in veterinary medicine and other caring fields burn out and leave, and what leaders should be considering in the modern workplace.

Crystal Stokes, a licensed marriage and family therapist and doctoral candidate who founded Full Circle Lab, brings a perspective shaped by her own unexpected path.

What are the emotional and systemic forces pushing good people out of caring professions? What do generational differences actually look like inside a veterinary practice? And what specific leadership skills, onboarding systems, and feedback structures determine whether a new hire stays or leaves within the first year? Listeners will walk away with a clearer picture of why culture is a business strategy, not a soft extra, and what well-supported teams actually look like from the inside.


KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Burnout in caring professions
  • The corporatization of veterinary medicine
  • The generational difference in the workplace
  • The Seasons of Life
  • Why onboarding is not an administrative task
  • Why clarity is a leadership obligation
  • How employee assistance programs routinely fail caring profession workers

TIMESTAMPS

  • 00:01 - Why a pre-vet student left the field and accidentally became a therapist
  • 03:31 - How volunteering at a hospital led to the origin of Full Circle Lab
  • 05:46 - What is actually burning out veterinary professionals
  • 08:24 - When burnout escalates: suicidal ideation in veterinary medicine
  • 10:13 - Why culture change stalls at the leadership level, not the team level
  • 17:49 - How younger workers approach the workplace differently than older generations
  • 21:39 - Where the mental health awareness pendulum may be swinging too far
  • 25:36 - Why life in seasons beats work-life balance as a framework
  • 30:00 - What younger workers need from leadership that they are not getting
  • 33:07 - How onboarding and performance management directly drive retention

Learn more about Full Circle Lab: https://www.fullcirclelab.com/

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