Episode Description:
Everyone says candidates deserve feedback. But what happens when the hiring manager can't actually explain why someone was rejected?
In this episode of Don't Tell Me About Yourself, Expert Interviewers co-founders Victoria Gates and Lorna Erickson debate whether every job candidate deserves interview feedback, why companies are so hesitant to provide it, and what candidates should realistically expect after being rejected. From ghosting and generic rejection emails to legal concerns, gut-feeling hiring decisions, and poorly documented interviews, they explore the difference between communication, transparency, feedback, and coaching. You'll learn how much feedback candidates should receive at different stages of the hiring process, why internal candidates need additional consideration, and how recruiters and hiring managers can give more useful, evidence-based feedback. Because if you can't explain why you rejected someone, the bigger problem might be how you made the hiring decision in the first place.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Not every candidate needs personalized interview feedback, but candidates deserve clear communication about where they stand in the hiring process.
Candidates often want closure more than coaching. A timely update or rejection can prevent unnecessary confusion, frustration, and speculation.
Companies hesitate to give interview feedback because of time constraints, legal concerns, uncomfortable conversations, poor documentation, and unclear hiring decisions.
Poor feedback doesn't necessarily mean poor candidate performance. It may indicate that interviewers lack the evidence needed to explain their decisions.
Communication, transparency, feedback, and coaching are different levels of candidate engagement. Communication is the baseline, while personalized feedback and coaching require more time and investment.
The further a candidate progresses through the hiring process, the more specific and individualized their feedback should become.
Applicants and candidates completing initial recruiter screens should receive timely updates and clear decisions, even when personalized feedback isn't practical.
Final-round candidates deserve meaningful, job-related feedback that explains how their experience and interview responses aligned with the role's requirements.
Internal candidates may need additional feedback and development guidance because rejection can affect their ongoing working relationships and future career opportunities.
Generic rejection explanations like "we went in another direction," "you weren't a fit," or "we needed someone more senior" provide little useful information without specific context.
Effective interview feedback should connect directly to predefined job criteria, observable evidence, and the skills or experience required for the position.
Hiring managers must be able to explain why they selected or rejected a candidate. If the decision was based primarily on gut feeling or personal chemistry, meaningful feedback becomes difficult.
Feedback is valuable, but communication is non-negotiable. Silence should never be a company's rejection strategy.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Does every candidate deserve interview feedback?
01:41 – Why candidates want feedback after rejection
02:54 – Why candidates are left without answers
03:50 – Interview feedback versus basic communication
05:16 – Why companies hesitate to give feedback
07:53 – How poor documentation prevents useful feedback
09:17 – When hiring managers can't explain their decisions
10:38 – Communication, transparency, feedback, and coaching
13:15 – The bare minimum every candidate deserves
15:37 – How much feedback should candidates receive?
16:37 – Giving honest feedback during recruiter screens
18:17 – What candidates deserve after an interview
19:24 – Why finalists need personalized feedback
20:24 – Should internal candidates receive more coaching?
22:41 – What to say instead of generic rejection phrases
25:22 – Why good feedback starts before the interview
26:34 – Feedback is valuable, communication is non-negotiable
KEYWORDS
candidate feedback, interview feedback, interview rejection, why companies don't give feedback, how to give interview feedback, candidate experience, candidate ghosting, rejection email, hiring manager feedback, recruiter communication, candidate rejection, internal candidate feedback, structured interviews, evidence-based hiring, hiring decisions, interview scorecards, hiring manager training
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